Months ago, I published an essay titled “There is Tension Around These Tenses.” In it, I described my ongoing struggle to use the proper tense when discussing my deceased partner and some of the effects it was having on the relationship with my new partner at the time.
Very good friend Adam. Well done!
Right!? Some of the most useful insight anybody has ever put on my Facebook wall :-)
that is what you get for putting yourself out there! bravo